dh finally started to talk to me last week. and sunday we were able to talk about dinner and yesterday was a nice enough day and last night we TALKED. i am
not sure where it took us. we both said things that we know, about how we each feel and ended up in vicious circle. i walked away and he continued trying to
rope me back in. i fell for it but with a different tactic. instead of being actively involved ..... i let him talk and when he asked me for an opinion,
remark or comment, then i would. i just feel like when i am actively involved...he is not really listening to me, instead he is working on how he can have it
worse. does that make sense? he slept in the bed and hugged me -- wow did that feel good!! (i am going to let him know that i appreciated it). during the
talk, it seemed to come back to how i need to change in non specific ways. even this morning, seemed like he was trying to start up some discourse by bringing
up negative points while i was trying to progress with ways that we could begin the process. didnt help. where did it leaves us?
thanks for letting me ramble
thanks for letting me ramble





