How do you discover your spouse's - and your own - love language? Chapman's short questionnaires are one of several ways to find out. Each section of the journal corresponds with a chapter from the book, offering opportunities for deeper reflection on your marriage.Although some readers may find choosing to love a spouse that they no longer even like -hoping the feelings of affection will follow later- a difficult concept to swallow, Chapman promises that the results will be worth the effort. "Love is a choice," says Chapman. "And either partner can start the process today."