I do have a job that pays pretty decent but the cost of living around here is high and I can't afford an apartment by myself. My husband is on disability through the VA and was attending school until he up and quit last week because he couldn't handle it anymore. I have begged him to go to counseling with me and he says that he's not interested because he doesn't think it will help. When I asked him how long he's been feeling nothing for me he said a few weeks. I tried to tell him that this is probably temporary and to give it a chance to pass but nothing I say seems to get through to him. He has no emotions or empathy for me it's like he has completley shut down. My heart is completley broken and I am devestated and I just don't know what to do.