Thanks for your response I do appreciate it. I am more than willing to give him time and space if he needs it but he is telling me that he is going this weekend to put down a deposit on an apartment in another state and that I have 30 days to figure out where I'm going to live. We don't have any children together but we do have two dogs that he is also taking with him. I feel like if I don't do something soon I am going to loose him forever and I don't know what to do. I've already left his therapist 2 messages asking for her guidance and I've gotten no response from her. I'm also stuck with the thought of what if he really does go I then have no place to live and I can't afford an apartment by myself.