I haven't posted here a lot but I do a lot of reading. I love the positive and defiantly believe it helps. But what has helped me the most is reading all the venting and knowing that our feelings are all shared here. It is such a great feeling in not been alone and seeing that you others are struggling too. Not that I want anyone to suffer but it validated my feeling to know others are feeling the same way. We are not all perfect.....that's why I'm here. You have all helped me so much. I love this site and don"t think anyone should judge us......especially without being here for a long time. Family and friends really can't understand........but here we all get it.