I just want to say that I get what Bambi is saying, but disagree with the idea that we are being negative. We are being human and just trying to deal with our human emotions that are, yes, more negative than we would like. But that is WHY we are here. We don't want to hold onto that negativity and because it comes from an uncommon source (PTSD), one that our nearest and dearest don't deal with on an everyday basis, we need a place to come to that truely understands the monster we are dealing with. This is not only a place to bitch and complain about our husbands (I can, and do, do that with my BF), but when I need advice on how to deal with a specific problem that is usually directly related to this disorder I know I can come here to ask those who have been there, done that more than once before. We all need some positivity and good energy, but sometimes we are just too deep in the junk to reach that high, and what we can only hope for at those times is someone to lend a hand and slowly help us out of the hole. That's what this place is for, at least in my mind. And I thank you all for it.
Peace.

Edited 1 time by LovePeace Aug 29 09 11:24 AM.