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Aug 28 09 2:52 PM
No Dani, It makes complete sense!!!! You just described how I felt for the last 2 years of my "realtionship". I know exactly how you feel (minus all the responsibilities and history you have which brings it to a level of anger I feel bad for you for cause I get it!) I have noticed you don't seem as happy lately, just so you know... :( Ex did this! He LIED LIED LIED ALL the time about work. And it was so stupid to me! And I realized what made me mad now Dani - it wasn't that he was choosing work over me, in a lot of ways I did that too with him - it was that if he was going to lie to me about something as stupid as work, and if I was going to buy every line he fed me about work, hook line and sinker - and if it was so EASY for him to get away with it - what the heck else was he lying about!!!!! Once I figured out he was lying it became anger not just at him but anger at me for letting him get away with it.
What would I do today if faced with this? Its different for me b/c I'm not married - but I'd kick him out until he could stop (i.e get help and figure out why the heck he feels the need). Now that won't work for you, its too extreme, but have you talked to your DH? Have you told him how mad you are? Have you stopped calling him? Have you called him on it? Have you demanded that he go to the VA apts. VA apts come before work. I'm sooooo sorry sweetie! :( How long has this been going on? Is he in an anniversary? I don't know how often he travels for work, but I also noticed that travelling always triggered ex too. He did well with structure, when that structure was gone its like his whole world exploded. Hugs dani! I'm sorry its been like this!!!! Love, Marisa
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