it wouldn't matter if you were the 2nd wife or the 5th wife. it'd still be all your fault. but who wants to be around a daughter that behaves like that. this the same one that expected to be given his favorite car? hopefully the will was done when your husband was still competent. the issue upcoming is 1) do you live in a community property state? and 2) that he left each child something ($1 or whatever) so they can't fight the will (also the proviso to diseinherit if the will is contested). oh, it'll probably be your fault that she couldn't see or talk to her Dad before he died (be prepared for this). you have lots of stress going on, lots of stress to come - but we're your friends. hugs

Edited 1 time by rokint May 3 09 12:46 AM.