Yeah I did not get away with it for long DH is to smart for my own good somedays. We did however draw up a contract to were we set and agreed on boundaries. The military channel and anything military on tv goes off at 3 pm in this house DH must have his hearing aides in while watching it. So when it's on I retreat to Netflix with my noise canceling earbuds or on the phone malingering my social long distance calls. I cannot even tolerate the news anymore. I pretty much live on net flix I have not watched the tv in want seems like a lifetime. The contract was DHs idea he says he works harder when his name is signed on the dotted line. So I guess we will live with contracts in this house. He also wanted us to do a contract for him to stop something we will see so far so good but as with many of you other ladies this is a bad time of year for us also. I would like a oneway ticket for myself to anywhere but here somedays.