Hollywood, I could not be HAPPIER for you and your DH! I am so glad you had someone who appears to have understood in the Judge! See, prayers DO get answered!
I decided to take some of my own and everyone else's advice and did something for myself! I went and got my hair done (not really done as I only got in for a high/low lighting, no styling etc., I even go home to blow dry it, cost and I don't like the way it comes out when they do it but I could not think of doing the coloring myself)! I have been trying a new place and it really is coming out much, much better! I also got myself a new bronzer/blush and indulged in a new Philosophy Shower Gel at TJ Maxx and it is amazing how a few things can really pick you up!
If no one has ever tried Philosophy Shower Gels they should as they can really be a pick me up in the morning or a soother in the evening! Also, there Grace fragrances and body lotions are terrific, too!
Hollywood, do take some time for you and your DH to just relax! It is very important! Do some little thing you both enjoy, even if it is only having something special for dinner!