We've been to counseling 3 times, the first time the lady kicked us out because we were making no progress after 6 weeks. The second time the lady said she wasn't going to send me to another counselor while she continued with dh and I never got a call even when I called them multiple times, and this was through a vet center. The last time was when dh's counselor brought me in and after a few weeks we made progress and he was going to send us to someone else to help with dh's PTSD study and we never got a call back. I went on my own last year and this one told me that what I think is stupid and that I should just adopt and get it over it. So I have no faith in counselors.

"It's all about falling down and getting back up, good times and hard love, true love and amazing grace, and working all week for a back ache... my lifes been a country song" - Chris Cagle