I'll be cooking the traditional dinner with just our two kids and mil. Dh is determined to bring her to our house since last year he was stuck in Va. with her. He REALLY wants to be home and I hope he can pull it off. Even before she got dementia, she didn't like leaving home. These days she sometimes doesn't even know where she is. At any rate, I've decided that I will be in my own home with my kids whether he comes or not. This is part of the boundaries I set. I will not allow his avoidance to spoil my enjoyment of any holiday. And Nakiea, I can't wait to have those turkey sandwiches!!!