I figured when I read your post that he was working the night shift. Sleeping all day long when you don't have a job isn't "something so little", in my opinion. I think your vent is totally justified. It sounds like DB is having depression issues. I know people have to make sacrifices when they need to work the night shift, and I know PTSD makes people do crazy things, but its hard to develop a relationship when you aren't able to be conscious at the same time!