QUOTE I have to say also while it is a big relief and validation, its a huge loss. Loss of what could have been, what could be. I have a hard time saying congratulations on the award, I can say thank god you got what was earned and owed. It is bittersweet. Thank you and your dh for your sacrifices QUOTE

 DITTO VICK!

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