I have to say also while it is a big relief and validation, its a huge loss. Loss of what could have been, what could be. I have a hard time saying congratulations on the award, I can say thank god you got what was earned and owed. It is bittersweet. Thank you and your dh for your sacrifices.

Reality is determined not by what scientists or anyone else says or believes but by what the evidence reveals to us.
-- Alan Hale