Thanks so much everybody. Hollywood, we have been stuck on the paperwork for transfer to VA Asheville. I was a bit confused about whether to give financials and now I'm waiting for a PIN to get the balance of his 403b. I'll check out the benefits section of the site to see what there is. It probably doesn't even matter if they know what's in his retirement fund. Meanwhile I called the outpatient community clinic and they said there was a PTSD group right in our own neck of the woods, which sounds like a godsend, but we need to have him transferred first and go from there.