Sweetie u have alot on ur plate- I didnt mean to come off mean - I just can't believe this site has dropped so much in such a short time.  Everyone is busy and it is really hard (I forget myself).  Sorry if my crankiness came off with this - it was truly not intended that way.  Nakiea keep me posted on BIL- tell ur sis I said I would sure be thinking of them both (and u too).  Hope things improve for all over the weekend.  Let me know if I can do anything for u.  Terri