My dh never makes decisions, I try and discuss it with him but he leaves it up to me. I am lucky he does not do a I told you so if I make the wrong decision, At least not lately. I have stml and crs so if it happened recently I can't remember. I am glad it worked out now for you and the fence looks great. These are the things that make me happy. Still decisions, family, financial, major are left up to me. Many times I feel I am the man of the house, and I carry the burdens on my shoulders. I know in my life it will never be that I can sit back and leave it to someone to handle for me. I do miss that fact that I could cry on his shoulders and let the burden go.


Reality is determined not by what scientists or anyone else says or believes but by what the evidence reveals to us.
-- Alan Hale