DH and I always have been somewhat perfectionist. And it does seem to stress him out a lot to have projects that need done. I guess I just don't understand why farm work doesn't stress him. Maybe the cows are more forgiving than I am. I am trying to just ask for an hour a day or most days. I have tried to explain that just a little bit is enough. It doesn't seem to be working too well.

I'm sure something sweet will happen and make this frustration go away. Your words have helped. I hope for something sweet for each of you.